Let There Be Love

"Often times when we are wronged, we naively believe that in order to be aligned with divine..."

Wed, 15 May 2013 18:57:08 +0800

“Often times when we are wronged, we naively believe that in order to be aligned with divine forgiveness, we are supposed to allow this person the same access to our lives that they once had. Also false. Forgiveness is freeing yourself from the resentment or pain that this person caused you and enabling feelings of freedom through this understanding that respectful absence can be a form of forgiveness as well. Not everyone whom desires access to your life, your heart, and your spirit are worthy of the access they seek. Protect it. Your time is your most valuable asset. By all means be selfless to those whom will appreciate it. But to continuously allow yourself to be used and suffer through other’s actions, you’re doing no one any justice. Take care of you first so that you can take care of your purpose and be all that you were meant to.”

- “Khalilah Yasmin”

words of wisdom

this woman is a GENIUS.

(via madeineightyeight)

"You will be stupid. You will worry your parents. You will question your own choices, your..."

Wed, 15 May 2013 18:57:04 +0800

“You will be stupid. You will worry your parents. You will question your own choices, your relationships, your jobs, your friends, where you live, what you studied in college, that you went to college at all… If that happens, you’re doing it right.”

- Ira Glass (via worldfallsdown)

Dinamika Manusia

Tue, 14 May 2013 20:09:13 +0800

setiap manusia punya sisi gelap

sisi gelap yang di repress ke dalam alam bawah sadar

disembunyikan oleh mekanisme pertahanan

kamu tidak pernah bisa menyimpulkan seseorang semudah penelitian kualitatif

Manusia adalah fenomenologi

kesatuan elemen dinamis yang indah nan misterius

saat kau melihat dia kuat

dialah yang terlemah

saat kau melihat dia tersenyum

dialah yang menangis

saat kau melihat ia tak berhati

dialah sesungguhnya yang paling mengerti

kita ini adalah keseimbangan homeostasis

jangan kau konklusikan dia

mengertilah bahwa setangguh apapun karang

akan terhempas ombaik bagaikan kikisan erosi air

membekaskan luka

membekaskan perih

kita ini manusia

lelaki atau perempuan

menangis itu wajar

rapuh itu normal

lalu mengapa terus berusaha terlihat tegar?

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I Miss You

Tue, 14 May 2013 18:42:49 +0800

quotediaryofficial:

You’re always on my mind, day and night
When I think of you, all feels so right
Need to have you, need to hold you
And tell you that I love you.

My dear, I don’t want to see us apart
This separation just tears away my heart
I miss you, oh, I really miss you
Will need you more and more each day
I know I cannot live without you
I miss you, more than words can say.

~ Zaskia

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Things You Should Never Say to Your Girlfriend

Tue, 14 May 2013 18:30:04 +0800

psych-quotes:

The top ten things that you should never say to your girlfriend no matter what the situation is are listed below:

·         Never say to her she is fat. You shouldn’t tell your girl that she is fat no matter how much weight she has gained. It doesn’t matter if she looks good but if you just say the word ‘fat’ to her, it means an insult in her eyes.

·         Never compare her with your mum. It’s a good thing to consider your mom as your role model but your girl might not like the idea of you constantly comparing her actions with your mother’s, no matter how positive your feedback is. It’s a bad thing to draw a comparison line between the both of them.

·         Never criticize her when you know she is trying. If she is trying to do something nice for you, try to show your appreciation instead of criticizing her actions or telling her that it could have been done a bit better. Ultimately, she might stop doing anything good for you if you continue with your actions.

·         Never tell her if one of your friends or family don’t like her. You should keep your mouth closed and never let her know if one of your close friends or a family member doesn’t like her. She doesn’t need to know about that and it will only cause a rift between you, her and that specific person every time you are together.

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ومابكم من نعمة فمن الله ثم اذا مسكم الضر فاليه تجأرون

Tue, 14 May 2013 03:12:06 +0800

“Whatever blessings you enjoy are from Allah, and when touched by distress, He is the One to Whom you cry for help.” [16:53]

"Marry your best friend. I do not say that lightly. Really, truly find the strongest, happiest..."

Tue, 14 May 2013 02:50:28 +0800

““Marry your best friend. I do not say that lightly. Really, truly find the strongest, happiest friendship in the person you fall in love with. Someone who speaks highly of you. Someone you can laugh with. The kind of laughs that make your belly ache, and your nose snort. The embarrassing, earnest, healing kind of laughs. Wit is important. Life is too short not to love someone who lets you be a fool with them. Make sure they are somebody who lets you cry, too. Despair will come. Find someone that you want to be there with you through those times. Most importantly, marry the one that makes passion, love, and madness combine and course through you. A love that will never dilute - even when the waters get deep, and dark.””

- N’tima (via arabarabarab)